She came from humble Italian origins to join India’s ruling family. Then both her mother-in-law, Indira Gandhi, and her husband, Rajiv, were brutally murdered. In a rare interview, the politician talks about her reluctant rise to power, Narendra Modi’s repressive regime – and why youth protests give her hope for the future
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For a woman who has been a witness to some of the most significant political moments in modern Indian history, Sonia Gandhi likes to insist her life has been far from remarkable. “Oh, I don’t know that I would say it’s an extraordinary story,” she says, shifting uncomfortably.
It’s hard to reconcile this modest characterisation with the course her life has taken over the last 79 years. Born to a working-class family in a small town in northern Italy, today she sits at the heart of Indian political power, having weathered assassinations and personal tragedy to become one of the country’s most influential figures. She held Indira Gandhi’s bloodied body after the then-prime minster, her mother-in-law, was gunned down at their home in Delhi in 1984. She then became India’s first lady when her husband, Rajiv Gandhi, took his mother’s place as prime minister. And when Rajiv, too, was killed, she threw aside her distaste for politics to step up and lead his fragmenting party. In 2004, having taken Congress to electoral victory, she famously turned down the prime minister post. She can still boast of being the longest-serving president of Congress, both when India’s oldest political party was in power and later, when it became the flailing opposition. When Gandhi stepped down in 2017, her son Rahul was appointed her successor.
Gandhi’s entrance into Indian politics began in Cambridge in the 1960s when, at 18, while she was studying at a language school, she fell in love with a bright-eyed boy at a Greek restaurant. At the time, she had no idea that Rajiv was heir to India’s most consequential political dynasty. “It was a coup de foudre,” she says. “After that, nothing else really mattered. He was, first of all, a handsome man. But I think his eyes told of the way he was – of his inner self. He was loving, he was comforting, he was caring. Everything I could have possibly dreamed of.”
View image in fullscreenSonia with her then fiance, Rajiv, in 1968. Photograph: Keystone/Getty ImagesOnly later would she learn that Rajiv’s grandfather was Jawaharlal Nehru, Indian freedom fighter and the country’s first prime minister, and his mother was Indira Gandhi, who in 1966 became India’s first female prime minister.
Does she still recognise herself in that innocent Italian girl who was swept off her feet and transplanted to an alien land and culture? “Not really,” she says quietly. “Too much has happened, too much has changed.”
We meet at the grand white Delhi bungalow she has lived in for 36 years – a relic of British colonial rule, where peacocks roam the grounds. It was in this house in 1991 that Gandhi heard her husband had been assassinated by Sri Lankan Tamil separatist terrorists. Over the years, as she took on the mantle of Congress leader, her home became the centre of party operations.
The ghosts of Congress leaders past loom large in her study. A painting of Nehru, photographs of Rajiv, a carved stone bust and portraits of Indira line the walls, while a painting of Mahatma Gandhi, the freedom fighter who shaped the ideology of Congress, also hangs prominently. Heavy gilded tomes fill the floor-to-ceiling wooden bookshelves, and a long meeting table dominates the space, but the vibrant rugs, patterned blinds and scattered antiques suggest Gandhi’s own light touch.
In a dark blue sari and maroon blouse, her signature neat grey hair pushed back with a black headband, Gandhi looks every inch the composed Indian political matriarch as she sits on the sofa. The only hint of her heritage is softly accented English and recognisably Italian gesticulation.
She has, she confesses, been very nervous and tense about our meeting. Gandhi has not done an interview in a decade, and throughout her life in the public eye, has tried fiercely to maintain her privacy. She has only agreed to this rare meeting to discuss her forthcoming memoir, a strikingly personal account of her life, and has asked her daughter Priyanka, also a senior Congress leader, to sit in for moral support.
India’s media has often cast her as cold and aloof, yet today she seems warm, open and often a little unsure of herself. She’s anxious about how personal the book is, worried it will be eviscerated by the Indian media, but suggests that after years of “horrible and crazy things written about me”, it will be comforting for people to know “the truth”.
Gandhi has good reason to be nervous of the press. In today’s India, the mainstream media landscape has been crushed into submission by the hardline, rightwing Modi government and is largely devoted to promoting the prime minister’s agenda, while mercilessly attacking the Congress party, in particular the Gandhi family. She does not hold back on criticism of Narendra Modi – accusing him of being an “authoritarian force bent upon changing the very nature of our country” – and of his party, BJP, which she says has “systematically dismantled our democratic institutions”.
View image in fullscreenAt home, watched over by portraits of Rajiv, Indira and Mahatma Gandhi. Photograph: Abhishek Bali/The GuardianThe Hindu nationalist vision of India that Modi has enacted over his 12 years in power is directly opposed to the pluralistic, secular India that was championed by successive Congress leaders and which remains enshrined in India’s constitution. It has led to well-documented oppression of the country’s minority groups, in particular its 200 million Muslims.
“More than disappointing, it’s very painful, having known a different India,” Gandhi says. “In parliament, we are not allowed to debate. In the past, there were discussions, there were meetings between the opposition and the government, there was consultation. Now the opposition counts for nothing.”
Since Modi came to power, she has had barely any interaction with him; he tends to avoid eye contact when they’re in a room together – a stark contrast to the past, when opposition leaders would often meet the government and “treat each other with cordiality”.
A “Congress-free India” is one of the openly declared goals of Modi’s BJP, resulting in highly personal attacks on Gandhi and her children, who have found themselves with numerous police cases filed against them. As we talk, Gandhi’s phone lights up with a call from her son Rahul – later, we learn a judge has just cleared him of defamation in one of these many cases, this time for criticising Modi’s home minister back in 2018. “They are very vindictive and vicious. There doesn’t seem to be a heart there,” Gandhi says.
So effective is the BJP’s crackdown on any form of dissent or criticism – what Gandhi describes as an “atmosphere of fear” – that her memoir almost didn’t see the light of day in India. Penguin Random House India were originally meant to release the book domestically, but after she sent them the manuscript she was met with a deafening silence. Gandhi says simply that Penguin were “uneasy in general with the criticism of the government” and that after she refused to make certain suggested edits, the publisher dropped the book, just a week before it was due to be announced. It will now be published by another imprint. In a statement, the publisher denied dropping the book, adding, “Any suggestion that Penguin Random House India decided not to publish Belonging because the author declined editorial changes does not accurately reflect the circumstances.”
Gandhi admits she was disappointed, though not altogether surprised, at what she sees as an attempt to censor her book. It is far from an isolated incident. In the days before we meet, Gandhi’s 26-year-old grandson, who is an artist and curator, is forced to take down dozens of his photographs depicting political protests that had been due to go on show in Delhi.
Gandhi had an early insight into the difficulties and loneliness of being a female leader in India’s deeply patriarchal society. When she arrived in India in 1968, she and Rajiv moved in with his mother, who at that time was two years into her first term as prime minister. Her husband, also a politician, had died years before.
They lived all together in another crumbling colonial Delhi bungalow, in relatively close and modest quarters. To outsiders, Indira was often seen as severe, an “iron lady”, and Gandhi admits that, to begin with, she was deeply intimidated by her formidable mother-in-law. Yet while Indira was imposing in public, she could be vulnerable in private, once confiding to Gandhi how terrified she was when she first bcame prime minister.
“In the newspapers she was portrayed as tough or harsh, but at home she was just like any other mother,” Gandhi says – although Indira’s notoriously explosive temper, frequently directed at political colleagues, would erupt through the house on occasion. Gandhi’s memoir recounts one incident where Indira lost her temper during a family dinner and threw her thali plate across the table.
Gandhi’s book documents the hostility Indira grappled with, both from political opponents and rightwing groups, but also from the old guard of her own party. “I saw her work day and night, constantly under pressure, constantly attacked,” Gandhi says. “It did affect her, like it would anyone. And of course, in that position, there is a loneliness. She had many interests and many friends, but it is a lonely kind of life.”
View image in fullscreenThe family in 1981. Photograph: Sondeep Shankar/Getty ImagesFor several years, Gandhi says, her own life was “carefree”. She and Rajiv were madly in love, often embarrassing their children with public displays of affection that were highly unusual in Indian households at the time. “For this man, I was ready to do everything, to lose even my Italian identity,” she says. Rajiv was working as a commercial airline pilot, and as relations warmed with her mother-in-law, Gandhi set about redecorating the austere Delhi bungalow with some Italian flair, and learning how to cook Kashmiri food. After a traumatic miscarriage, she gave birth to two children, who were doted on by Indira. Even her pangs for fresh Italian ingredients, impossible to find in India in those days, eventually ebbed.
But in 1975 Indira would make the most controversial decision of her political life. Amid mounting political unrest, economic hardship and a concerted effort by the opposition to bring down the Congress government, Indira decided to impose a state of emergency on the country, in a bid to instil order. The repercussions were profound: the constitution was suspended, civil liberties and democratic freedoms abandoned, the media silenced and opponents detained en masse without trial. It lasted for almost two years, and is still seen as the darkest period of India’s democracy; it is regularly used to tarnish the Congress party today.